Scientists Malaqidi Italian women found that men more like women in love, women like men. Become more gentle and affectionate men, women will become more passionate, a woman in love, so show it is easier to "barbaric", but also love to her boyfriend "Spot angry."
The findings coincided with the situation encountered in our lives coincide.
Love the girls at every turn and her boyfriend lost his temper, often let the boys know what to do, often heard the boys to issue such a feeling: the girl's mind can be really difficult to guess. Women in Love Grumpy, there are no psychological basis for a girl in love, consciously or unconsciously Shuapi Qi is a test of her boyfriend, which is actually out of subconscious psychological self-protection.
24-year-old Miss Ma is currently working in a foreign trade company, a year ago at a gathering of students in her understanding of the current boyfriend, the two quickly about the love, the colt, said the eyes of my colleagues are notoriously his good temper, always in a good mood, but do not know why, since the official talked with my boyfriend, love, and always to get angry with him, angry.
In fact, I know he did not nothing wrong, and sometimes feel that he should let me, spoil me. Especially to those few days each month, the thought of my boyfriend, would resent him, and grew more and more disgusted, always trying to find a crop of angry at him, thanks to my boyfriend good-natured, or else ignored me earlier the.
Counselor, said that women of this psychology, actually out of a subconscious self-protection, usually they will want to fall in love each other if not let her, then how could the day before?
So the girls will be consciously or unconsciously in love to her boyfriend set up some barriers to see whether the capacity to own boyfriend, Shuapi Qi just one test method, of course, the most common way, for example, in the appointment of his intentionally late, mainly to see her boyfriend would react if he does not Discovery of the color slightly to show it, inevitably meet his girlfriend's "bombardment", some might have been denounced in the following to "Game over" the .
In fact, a woman angry is a very lovely, if angry girl with a never to be together, just like drinking water, although the thirst-quenching long period of time would definitely feel uninteresting, because human nature is like novelty, do not like unchanged.
Women love it for more anxiety, irritability and mood of women comes from a sense of insecurity and self-confidence the male colleagues do not always complain about his girlfriend Nansi Hou, you romance of it, he said you master is in love, not romantic it, he says you have no flavor. In short, the left nor the right no.
Counselor said, women are emotional animals, she is very sensitive emotionally, but also fragile. When the love the two sides dispute, the women will be emotionally vulnerable performance as angry. Sometimes, the female irritable mood that comes from a sense of insecurity and non-self-confidence.
Especially adolescent girls, with the increasing psychological maturity of their own gender roles and become increasingly concerned about physical characteristics, is thin, beautiful, all her anxiety and distress thing. Women love it for more anxiety, which is the reason they love angry. And this was also a woman in emotional expression are not independent.
Women's inclusion is relatively small, deep down, or feel that they are weak, some things once the bear, it will find vent export side vent her boyfriend became the object of nature, and love, men to Women do not take offense.
This is because rational thinking men are relatively strong, more independent, to play in society is always the strong role to play this role will be to go into a relationship, will show the compatibility is strong, strong sense of responsibility, not love temper. In our cultural tradition, men should always ask, generous, generous, calm, with guest, the volume, do not care about. For women, society is able to accept their changing character.
This is, physiological psychology has studied the latest issue of "New Scientist" magazine, the Italian study found that women scientists Malaqidi, gender differences in temperament are not so obvious, because men and women love male hormone levels during the body tends to consistent, in other words, men like women in love, women like men. Become more gentle and affectionate men, women will become more passionate, a woman in love, so show it is easier to "barbaric", but also love to her boyfriend "Spot angry."
Women have needs and expectations of her boyfriend, when expectations and feedback when the asymmetrical, often disappointed, lost, Wang and Zhang met at work, they work with a company, both sides have a good impression, but exchanges after the in the performance of Zhang and Wang's eyes just before the half the man, before his eyes as colleagues Xiao Zhang is the kind of methodical work, failing to calm the standard of knowledge women.
But when they started dating officially later, after a girlfriend Zhang angry to him at every turn, sometimes simply because the reasons that can not even call it a big fat ground fire, for example, one to eat, when Wang I asked my girlfriend what to eat, his girlfriend replied casually, and he points his girlfriend by convention favorite things, can be a kung fu-fighting to see his girlfriend's face cloudy, and finally a volcanic eruption, he had to apologize constantly.
Although he did not know himself in the end you did wrong, most definitely this is the last thing his girlfriend up to the level of theory, old and tired not tired of eating one thing, ah, come to the conclusion that Wang did not actually care about their real thoughts , indicating that Wang does not love themselves, they certainly like the other girls. Wang complain incessantly, this is what are you talking, ah, where to start
Old Chinese Psychological Society Psychology Professional Committee, said Tao Liqun, deputy director of a small woman can not be more to the little things, hair could not be more of a temper. This is because the woman had asked the man on the side, have high hopes, expectations and feedback when the information is not returned, etc., often disappointed, disappointment, therefore, easy for a man woman angry.
And love the attitude of men towards women and men treat women is different, and this particular occasion she was with her in their daily work to treat people's attitude is quite different. When a woman working in a state of complete, she is usually a man of her social role and dealing with, then they can not, or show little or as unreasonable, when men often feel that "she" reasonable, at least he will not feel what she is not normal.
But once you need to use when dealing with men's gender roles rather than her social role, women in many cases would show that men can not figure out the wayward. And because women are very sensitive to people and things around, especially in love, she will continue to be a comparison between himself and others, my mind always worried about the value of their own lack of recognition of each other, this often leads to anxiety , the performance is suspicious, love angry.
Sometimes, also because of the unique physiological causes of women, changes in the menstrual cycle, endocrine imbalance, weakness, poor resistance, causing autonomic nervous system dysfunction, most women will show the temper, irritability, these are understandable, as her boyfriend at this time should be thoughtful, caring girlfriend, do not over-stimulate each other.
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