2010年11月4日星期四

Study found that five habits can enhance marital happiness

American psychologists and therapists have several years of follow-up survey found that: happy couples have some "common habits" in their daily lives will instinctively follow some "clause."

 
Not always have to tell the truth
Sounds seem to violate common sense, but, and partners to maintain "100% transparent" is not a good thing.
In discussing some thorny sensitive topic, such as the two sides of the family how best to "remain silent" and not fall into his own emotions back to each other, "to retain the words" in order to truly promote feelings.

 
Between husband and wife no winner
Because two of the human personality and lifestyle are fundamental differences between husband and wife can either try to change each other's "bad temper." The idea that there must win every argument the idea of one party and an apology is unacceptable. We should try to come up with remedial measures, not into endless arguments.

 
Few times a month to spend time
The activities of ordinary life, whether it is shopping together, or cook together, are the happy couple to spend time coup. Moreover, such activities should not be too frequent, few times a month is enough.

 
Touch trick is more important than sex
Psychologist Lewis Terman of Stanford University found that those "sex" couples do not always sex, but often maintained physical contact. Pat on the back, touch face little trick like a better sex life than to promote the feelings between husband and wife.

 
Recollection of good times
University of Exeter, psychologists interviewed 200 pairs of close relations between husband and wife find that they have one thing in common: Even if the two quarreling, they would still be a "historical perspective" view of issues, his recollection of a little love each other before drop. They believe that marriage fight the inevitable, so we will not be so "into" to care about.

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