Men are usually educated and the rich connotation of respect for women, and often try and close them to keep a close state, and proud of it, and attachment, obsessed with the relationship. If conditions permit, to marry such a woman can go home, spend a lifetime, will be one of their life dreams.
Wealthy upbringing, is a form of moral beauty, it will increase as the years, the purification of the mind and increasingly shows its luster.
If a woman is always self-centered, without considering each other's position, or even ignore the existence of others, then, and this woman with the work or life, make people feel dull.
Conversely, in the attitude and so can everywhere for others, there is a tolerance, patience, understanding of the heart, then this woman can be regarded as an educated woman.
Many people believe that training is the appearance of a beautiful woman, in fact, this idea is very wrong.
There is a saying: "That is not a woman absolutely can not tolerate a beautiful thing, but no training is definitely something a man can not be tolerated."
I am more agree with this view, many women looked very beautiful, but they act rude, often prompting a man prohibitive, or the heart is offensive; contrast, those who looks normal, but the cultivation of language and behavior on the wealthy woman to win the men often heart.
In addition, some people tend to observation from a minor place to the educated woman with a degree.
One exemplary mother said: "probably from the kitchen, dressing room clean and tidy see a degree of beauty and ugliness family, see a housewife on the efforts paid by the family and the love of the family level, which is really important point. "
There is also a well-known entrepreneur, said: "As long as the bathroom to see office buildings, whether a company can be aware of the solid Cosmos, female staff are good upbringing."
Of course, most people still prefer the appearance of a person from the point of view the behavior of a person's level of accomplishment. If a person is apt to curse, harm, damage property and hurt someone else's body, or to do some things beyond the moral standards, the performance is no accomplishment.
To want to cultivate a woman, you must pay attention to their daily life, behavior, while also continue to expand the scope of reading, improve their knowledge of literacy, so as to comprehensively improve the level of personal accomplishment.
If you can absorb the knowledge stored in the brain, and further thinking about it, have their own views and opinions, and then to express their own meaning, you can truly be called educated people have the knowledge.
Educated women will often remind ourselves.
This means do not condone their own, strict requirements for their attitude. But if the blame for their tolerance and others, this person is not qualified to be called educated.
A famous Hollywood movie star used to say: "I am the educator, that is, myself."
She was able to properly control their own, acting be sure, but she constantly remind ourselves that although she received only a limited education but still has made himself into a woman of good breeding.
So, how can the rich breeding it?
Before marriage, as women, we must comprehensively improve the level of personal accomplishment, this can firmly grasp the man's heart, and ultimately ensure a solid and long-term marriage happiness.
In addition, we must also know some women do not have the performance of cultivation, this will be married in their own daily behavior remain vigilant.
1. Eye-shallow, small tolerance.
2. Her husband at work like to trace their whereabouts.
3. Like to secretly investigate her husband pocket.
4. One minute would not allow her husband out of their sight.
5. Make no avail, the blind pursuit of heavy makeup. If too thick brow describe the loss of gentle beauty; cheeks rouge too thick; lipstick and face too much contrast; by dew, beauty cream face impeccably white and blue, lost the beauty of elegant simplicity.
6. Do not honor in-laws, only Qindie honor his biological mother.
7. Always suspected her husband can not hack it, would not even hold chores.
8. "Gender awareness" is too dilute, a man with Pai Jianbang with spanking, playful slapstick like routine.
9. No enthusiasm to friends and family.
10. Shortcomings and mistakes of others can not tolerate, and never consider other people need.
11. Too obsessed with their looks, body, the pursuit of other people's appreciation and flattery.
12. No self-respect, not self-love, flirt, sexual issues too casually.
13. Do not want to listen to criticism, hypocrisy, dishonest, ruthless, no only ignorant, lazy.
14. Bicker like provocation, would not suffer the slightest.
15. High-called gender equality, but also everywhere asking for the privilege.
16. Words like beat around the bush, of simple to complex.
17. Possessive.
18. Love-hate extremes - often a crying two downtown in order to achieve the purpose of the three hanged.
According to the above phenomenon, we must remain vigilant.
There was a man and his wife to divorce his wife do not agree, that their pains to support him, and take care of the house and accompany him through more than ten years, regardless of money or not is hard to follow his business, and he did not do the things I'm sorry . Men are not people think of the wealthy, raising the mistress, Xiao Mi, in fact, he is just an ordinary taxi driver, also from dawn to dusk to make money.
But he seems very determined to divorce, and sued to court. The judge asked him: "Why are you and the wife a divorce?" The man said: "Three reasons, people can not endure, I have put up too long, not longer forbear, like a balloon, was constantly blowing big, blown to a certain extent, to its limit, it will explode. I'm about to explode the balloon. "
These three reasons are: 1. Petty, suspicious; 2. Stingy, despite the man's face; 3. Not good, no compassion.
Three reasons to say, we all felt stunned, because this is the little things everyday behavior, is not a big mistake in principle, but that these little things, grudges for a long time to become a family time bomb, destroyed Ten years is a hard business house, destroyed a young woman to pay more than ten years. And youth are not renewable.
Women find it very odd, she argued that she has done, is for the family, in order to save. Can men do not appreciate it. Shows a woman with a wonderful character, with good conservation, how important it is in the eyes of men.
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