2010年11月4日星期四

Henpecked" type of marriage is more lasting

"Henpecked" husband more and more, lower status than men, but more people know how to care for his wife had ---

"His wife" type of family and marriage more permanent
In the past, there is a gentle statement henpecked --- henpecked. With the changing times, gradually relatively equal status of men and women, "henpecked" standard has also changed, with the henpecked henpecked or not is no longer simply equate ability.

Shandong Academy of Social Sciences, a recent survey, men are henpecked more and more popular.

How do men look "henpecked" listen to and respect my wife certainly would =
The status of women in the family is rising, "His wife" type of family seems to be more common. "Henpecked" under the interpretation of the new generation, with new meaning. People are concerned about is how this change affects what level?

In order to find the eyes of modern man "henpecked", Shandong Provincial Academy of Social institutions with a market survey of 3310 people (males 64.5%, female 35.5%), of which 77.3% are married.

In the "henpecked" meaning to understand the survey, 32.9% of male respondents considered that, in many cases, a man henpecked in fact not simply interpreted as a fear of his wife, said "fear" is actually on the other side recognition and respect.

Men 24.1% of the respondents also said that henpecked wife is actually another way of love. More concentrated explanation is henpecked at home, angry, so I do not quarrel with his wife, but his wife obediently listen to the "send away"; henpecked at home bored, so even have time with his wife no matter how busy watching TV, park, or even shopping for clothes.

Project Leader, Shandong Academy of Social Sciences researcher Xu Rongxian said, one respondent summed it up well --- "henpecked" is to be "wife" sub-full "off (of) note," and "strict" cell to take care of.

Men are "henpecked" Ms. ye see? "Three from the four virtues," the most lovely husband
A woman appears, with "three from the four virtues," the man is the most lovely, the respondents hold this view of women accounted for nearly half.

Way Ting is one of the respondents a researcher's niece. She is from small to large apple of their parents, it can be said from an early age develop a "me the most, I would do" concept.

Reporter linked to the road-ting, she said that although the man before chasing many of their aspects are very good, but not really able to accommodate his temper candidate, until now met her husband, she was relieved to put myself pay out.

He alone can really tolerant, understanding, caring themselves, withstand his temper. After getting married, by his influence, his temper a lot of convergence miracle. Lu Ting said that perhaps this is love, because of "fear" students "love", and his wife fear and love, this man is a good man.

Exposure: henpecked career list, "henpecked" man is the leading multi-range children
Survey, 55.1% of men to their ranks included henpecked. Those suffering from "henpecked" men, from the professional point of view, business owners and staff the highest proportion, 36% and 28.4%, followed by civil servants, accounting for 20%.

From the income point of view, 63.8% of men with high monthly income than his wife.

Xu Rongxian said that the eyes of a man in Jinan, "henpecked" also mainly for the "three bans." Specifically: Do not ignore her when she was angry, not given time to calm her, but she really does not need time to cool completely; two people have the right to get angry, but in the same day, if she was angry, you can not Combustion; in her bad mood, angry rude when to hold her, not her theories.

Interestingly, the "henpecked" We would be happy to family harmony. You like to be his wife for now? Up to 61.9% of people said they liked.

Small women have the final say big men call the shots
The status of women in the family, although the lead, but that does not mean that a man loses his steward position. In some matters of principle, people still seem to stand in support of the traditional position.

Survey, when asked "Do you think in your house who is in charge" when, up 42.1% of the respondents chose the "big men call the shots, small women call the shots."

As a mother of Ms Dong said: "In fact, the issue is not who call the shots, but to see who is more likely to make the right decision in our house, I fully believe the President's discretion, and believe his decision was correct. "

Ms Dong had the same opinions and really a lot of women, they generally agreed that, for some family events to grasp, men tend to be more rational decisions.

"Han Qi," but also to grasp the scale of aggressive
Xu Rongxian said that women are aware that he assumed a reason, "Han Qi," the posture, is nothing more than to prove how much men care about their degree of depth. However, men can not be successful career women turn around all day, so a woman should be good grasp of the "aggressive" scale, and occasionally make them "macho" about it anyway.

He said, "henpecked" is only because his wife love you, hurt you, fishes you "strict", "If one day, your wife began to turn a blind eye to you, I think, the feelings of that time, you should is broken. "
All with the "henpecked" man the slightest, it is impossible not tasted the sweetness of marriage.

Listen to his wife a little more than words, the body would be less problems; listen to his wife, then some more, have the final victory belongs to men; to sincerely listen to the words of his wife, is the quarrel over the beginning of happiness. Although the ever-changing relationship between husband and wife, but the original aim is still the same: If you listen to a woman, then man, life is easier.

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