Impact of a failed marriage, life

Marriage is Siege: people who want to go outside, inside people want to come out; some people into a few out of several, and some people get a thought out, but standing on top of a wall once wandered away --- because they are afraid, and not later find happiness again.

 
Fellow, Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Korean fabric new that really prevalent these concerns, the sixties and seventies of last century, people born in particular. Parents to their children's marriage very seriously, stressing Family Harmony, preferably single-mindedness. Once a problem child marriages, relatives, friends, colleagues, and many other relationships will change because of the divorce. Therefore, the parents would try every means to persuade and not Encouraging.

 
In contrast, the "80" more and more people get married, their views of marriage and fathers differ on the remarriage of the problems they see very light, that happy to together, not happy simply do not need hang on.

 
A failed marriage will affect life? Han Bu-new that the divorce will really affect a person's health, which is mainly reflected in psychology, depression, loneliness, anger, resigned and so on. University of Chicago National Opinion Research Centre on Ageing of nearly 9,000 adults aged 51-61 also found that, after analysis, with the current marriage, compared to normal, there have been experienced by divorced or widowed, heart disease, diabetes or risk of cancer and other diseases, 20% higher.
In the United States, women 30 years of age divorce, remarriage is only 60%; if more than 40 years of divorce, remarriage, the proportion dropped to 40%. Moreover, both men and women, who remarried and then the divorce rate over 60%. Psychologists, remarriage, generally with nostalgia, especially those who remarry after divorce. Many people marry just for distraction from the boredom of single life, choosing a partner when the more realistic standard than first marriage.

 
Some married couples may each carefully between the eyes, suspicious of each other. Faced with such a weak basis for marriage, when the two sides in conflict, it is easy to collapse. Thus, the U.S. experts began more and more psychological depth to resolve marital crisis, a crisis in various ways to help people save the marriage.

 
But that does not show that life after divorce is not happy. Han Bu-New said: "The decision to divorce is the key to happiness lies in ourselves, where to get up from where we should fall. Summarize the reasons for previous failed marriage, and more to find the reason from his body; good habits do not change, more attention their own health. This can minimize the harm of divorce, but also for the happiness of marriage, the next time to prepare. "