Psychologists generally agree that the United States, many normal adults have the ability to start a secret life of their own, as long as they do not have to force myself to remain that way. The psychologist also said that for a man, his ability to keep a secret in the community health development. A person who wants to learn the appearance of other types of re-shaping its own, or even pretend, but also to maintain his adulthood.
"To put it a little mysterious, unless you have a secret, otherwise you will not have their own. In life, sometimes we will feel, in our social circle which we fell. The social circle may also be a job or marriage . When we tried to seize a secret or excuse, in order to prove that there is another identity, we tend to feel good, "Harvard University psychology professor Daniel Wagner said. He added: "And we now find that some people are better at than other people do these things."
Good big secret attraction
Over the years, psychologists have the ability to keep a secret that a person living in the development of the mental health center. Children 6 to 7 years old learn not to give advance disclosure of her mother's gift. In adolescence and adulthood, a person can not be fluent in social harmless lie, often related to his mental health. The researchers also found that secrecy can enhance the ability of a person's attractiveness. As the British writer Oscar Wilde put it: "The most common thing, only when you hide when it will be really glad."
Psychologists found that thousands of people in the United States, such as living under the homosexuals in heterosexual marriage, out of shame and self-restraint on their own, have had to start a secret gateway to another world journey. A secret life and this will be destructive, it depends on the nature of this secret, and a person's psychological composition.
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